Radhika Yadav: I wish I would not leave her alone… “A mother’s pain, who lost her daughter at the hands of her husband, how to go away now

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The news of Radhika Yadav’s murder shook the entire country. A promising national level tennis player girl, who was running a tennis academy on her own, was killed by her own father. But the most untold and deep pain behind this sensational headline is Radhika’s mother. Murder of daughter at the hands of her husband… and now a mother must have been constantly struggling with the question that “I wish I would not leave him alone that day…”This is not just a regret, but a gilt, which can break the mental state of any human being badly.

Burden of regrets
Psychologist it ‘The crime of the survivor’ in ‘Burch burden’ They say. When a person takes a gilt to stop the death of a close friend, then this situation arises. Especially when the cause of death has come from inside the house- a husband, brother or a family member. In such cases the victim starts feeling like a criminal, while the real convict is someone else. She thinks that if she had done something else at that time, the child might have survived. This mental burden can gradually turn into depression, anxiety and self-aggression.

Such relationships collapse
In such a situation, a person not only loses children, but also loses his spouse emotionally and socially. Now the question is also whether such women are able to forgive the person who took away the child born from his womb? Actually, this gilt is not only associated with one incident, but affects the whole life of the woman. She starts looking at every relationship with suspicion. Especially if the family and society pressures him to remain silent.

Whose wife
After such a heinous act of husband, it is difficult to guess how much turmoil will happen in the mind of that woman. On one side there is the mother whose lap is heard, and on the other side is the wife, who is swinging between society, relatives and laws. People may say that she did not save the daughter, or also ask why she is living with the man now. But will you ever try to understand his mental condition?

How long such domestic violence!
Radhika’s mother’s pain is not of any one woman, it is the pain of all women who are victims of violence of their own in their own house, whether directly or indirectly. If we do not dare to question such relationships, then many more Radhika will be lost and many women will be entangled in “I wish” throughout their life.

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